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Happiness is having your own place

2 April 2013 – Happiness is…I have an apartment

It has been an adventure getting here. When I first started looking for apartments, I had no idea how many would be available in Morris. It’s a small town and I thought there would a small number of apartments.

Turns out that isn’t true. Morris has a lot of rental properties, several apartment buildings, and most of the downtown businesses have apartments above them. All in a town of 13,000 people. Well, not a town really since it’s called the City of Morris. But it’s still just 13,000 people.

I was surprised by how many people didn’t return phone calls about the apartments they advertised. For a while I wondered if maybe they recognised my name and just didn’t want me around. You could say the last few months have given my self-confidence a wee bit of a beating. πŸ™‚

There were a few learning points along the way, too. For example, I grew up calling the electric bill a hydro bill. So when I talked to people and called it hydro, they had no idea what I was talking about. For me, I had to learn who handles different utilities and what the process is for getting an account in my name. It was all kind of cool.

The result is that I have an apartment today. That feels really good.

I decided not to stay there tonight, though, Tom, the landlord, is having the carpets cleaned, so I’ll wait until that is done before sleeping in the apartment. Since I don’t have a bed, I’d like to know the carpets are clean. So I’m staying at PADS tonight, and maybe the next couple of nights.

Still, happiness is knowing I have a place to call home. It’s a big step up from being homeless. I even spoken to two of the guys I’ve made friends with at PADS and told them they’re welcome to stay with me if they need a place. The PADS program ends in 10 days.

143 Days to Getting Happy

143 days to happiness – 11 Nov 2012 to 2 Apr 2013

A test of what I have learned in life about being happy, getting happy and letting go of pain

NOTE: Some names have been changed. The manuscript does not reflect well on them, so their name is changed to protect their privacy as much as possible.

8 – 10 Nov 2012 –Β GKIC Info Summit in Nashville, TN

Day 1 – Sunday, 11 Nov 2012 – Happy and Confident changes to Fear

Came home one day early to share my success with Yvette. I landed six new clients at Continue reading